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Hoexter's, American restaurant in Upper East Side with private room, photo 1 of 5

Hoexter's

American

4.5
Updated September 2026
Private Room

Step into Hoexter's intimate back room and you'll find yourself transported to a gilded Victorian salon, where crystal chandeliers cast a warm glow over your group's conversation around expertly prepared American fare. The space feels like dining in a beautifully appointed private library, with rich details that spark conversation and create those memorable moments that turn a simple group dinner into an occasion. For larger celebrations, you can take over the entire back space, giving your party the run of this Upper East Side gem's most enchanting corner.

Group Dining Details

Back room with crystal chandeliers; Victorian-era decor; full back space buyout; 174 E 82nd St

From guest reviews: Small groups book tables for birthdays and friends' nights out, ordering a la carte in a narrow, lively dining room. Read what groups say

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What groups say

Small groups book tables for birthdays and friends' nights out, ordering a la carte in a narrow, lively dining room.

What works
  • Warm, accommodating staff noted by several diners
  • Burgers and French onion soup repeatedly praised
  • Lively, trendy atmosphere suits a night out with friends
  • Kitchen remade a dish when a group complained
Watch out for
  • Management has asked groups to lower their voices
  • Small room and bar area, waits even with reservations
  • Uneven pacing: one guest's entree arrived 15 to 20 minutes late
  • Reviewers describe a small, narrow dining room with a U-shaped booth used for a party of 5.
  • Ordering is a la carte; reviewers mention burgers, steak, salads, French onion soup and garlic bread.
  • Reservations are recommended, though one group with a booking still waited 25 to 30 minutes.
  • Prices are described as high, with one group of 5 spending over $500.

Drawn from 9 Google reviews of Hoexter's that mention a group, a private room or a celebration, read September 2026. The reviews below describe a group visit, private rooms and larger events first, with the critical ones kept in.

  • friends group dinner, party of 5
    Dined on a Friday evening with a group of five. Bar area is small and not conducive to ordering a drink while waiting for your table (which is okay, but notable). No complaints about the food at all. The service was not great but wasn’t bad enough specifically to merit a negative review. However, what pushed me and my friends over the edge of frustration is the following event and how it was handled in such a disrespectful way by the restaurant staff: Our table was singled out and we received a visit from the manager because another table complained about our noise level. This was rich irony as we ourselves were already commenting about how loud the rest of the place was to begin with…we may have laughed a few times but we were by far not the most noisy group or close to it. The restaurant is small and it was a Friday evening. The manner in which we were approached was condescending and it felt inappropriate to reprimand a table of happy people that are spending $500 plus to quiet down. You don’t want to go out at the end of a week with your friends for a light but fun evening and leave feeling like your mood was influenced by an indifferent waitress and presumptive manager. It’s definitely not a great approach to retain customers. Hopefully these are just growing pains.
  • friends group dinner
    I never post reviews for restaurants, but last night I came with a group of friends and was truly appalled at the service we received. We were sat at a U-shaped booth that faced the interior of the narrow restaurant (therefore facing the tables on the other side of the restaurant. We were all enjoying our first cocktails together /catching up when the manager came over and said we were “too loud and other guests needed to enjoy their time as much as we were.” we were talking at a normal volume for how loud the restaurant was on a friday night and it was clearly one table right across from us that complained. This was extremely unprofessional for a manager to say something to us and subsequently make us feel uncomfortable for the rest of the dinner.
  • group night out
    We enjoyed our evening at Hoexters. The restaurant is dark and intimate (on the smaller side) and very busy, with a lively, trendy vibe. Even though we had a reservation, we still waited about 25–30 minutes for our table, so we grabbed drinks at the bar—worth it, because the dirty martinis were delicious. Food-wise, we had salads, steak, fries, and burgers. I have to say, I wasn’t expecting the smashburger to be as good as it was—it really surprised me in the best way. Fries did come out super salty, but they did remake them for us. Service was generally pretty good, but we were disappointed that one person in our group had to wait an extra 15–20 minutes for her burger while everyone else’s food came out, and no one from the staff really acknowledged the delay. Prices were on the higher side. But to be expected for any big city. Overall, it’s a fun, trendy spot that’s great for a date or a group night out. Despite a few hiccups, we’d definitely check it out again if we’re in the area. Tip: A reservation is a must!

Good to know

Typical spend
$100+ per person
Serves
Brunch, lunch and dinner
Reservations
Takes reservations
Groups
Good for groups
Outdoors
Outdoor seating
Access
Wheelchair accessible entrance and seating
Hours
Monday5:00 to 10:00 PM
Tuesday5:00 to 10:00 PM
Wednesday5:00 to 10:00 PM
Thursday5:00 to 10:00 PM
Friday5:00 to 11:00 PM
Saturday11:00 AM to 11:00 PM
Sunday11:00 AM to 10:00 PM

Hours, spend and amenities from Google. Private event hours and minimums are set by the restaurant.

Frequently asked questions

Does Hoexter's have a private dining room?
Yes. Hoexter's offers a private dining room for groups in Upper East Side. Back room with crystal chandeliers; Victorian-era decor; full back space buyout; 174 E 82nd St.
How much does it cost to book a private event at Hoexter's?
Guests at Hoexter's typically spend $100+ per person on a regular visit, according to Google, before drinks and tip. A private room or group booking is usually priced on a food and beverage minimum that scales from that per-head figure rather than a flat room fee. Minimums run higher on Friday and Saturday nights and through December. Contact Hoexter's for the current minimum and deposit terms.
When is Hoexter's open?
Hoexter's is open Monday to Thursday 5:00 to 10:00 PM, Friday 5:00 to 11:00 PM, Saturday 11:00 AM to 11:00 PM, and Sunday 11:00 AM to 10:00 PM, serving brunch, lunch and dinner. The restaurant takes reservations for regular tables. Private rooms can often be booked outside these hours, including daytime events, so ask when you inquire.
What kind of restaurant is Hoexter's?
Hoexter's is a $$$$ American restaurant in Upper East Side, New York City, rated 4.5 stars across 267 Google reviews. It has outdoor seating and a wheelchair accessible entrance.
What do guests say about group dining at Hoexter's?
Small groups book tables for birthdays and friends' nights out, ordering a la carte in a narrow, lively dining room. Reviewers describe a small, narrow dining room with a U-shaped booth used for a party of 5. Ordering is a la carte; reviewers mention burgers, steak, salads, French onion soup and garlic bread. Reservations are recommended, though one group with a booking still waited 25 to 30 minutes. Prices are described as high, with one group of 5 spending over $500. Reviewers praise: warm, accommodating staff noted by several diners; burgers and french onion soup repeatedly praised; lively, trendy atmosphere suits a night out with friends; kitchen remade a dish when a group complained. Watch for: management has asked groups to lower their voices; small room and bar area, waits even with reservations; uneven pacing: one guest's entree arrived 15 to 20 minutes late. Based on 9 Google reviews of Hoexter's that mention a group, a private room or a celebration.

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